The things that have happened in the past, that are not happening right now. Let it go. If you want to be free, stop locking yourself in the prison of the past. Stop holding yourself in the darkness of your past, if you want to see the light of the future. If you really want to move on, realize the heavyweight from your back. If you don’t want them to win, let it go, move on, and create your best life.
Don’t Be The Prisoner Of Your Past!
You would never allow a thief to enter your home and live there rent-free. So, why do you allow your thoughts to steal your joy to enter and live inside your mind? Let it go. Hada moment of confrontation? Let it go. Don’t allow to live it in your mind, stealing the joy from the rest of your day. Someone did wrong? Let it go. They will ruin more of your life if you allowed them to invade in your mind like a virus which will only affect the quality of your life in every other area.
Best Revenge: Let It Go!
The best revenge is always moving on. Letting go. Showing your ego is brave enough to let go. Showing you are strong enough to enjoy your life. To live your life fully, regardless of what happens or who is not doing the right things by you. Let them have their accidents somewhere else. Life hasn’t gone as planned? It doesn’t for anyone. Move on. Focus on the Good.
“Let It Go” The Key To Success.
Those who live amazing lives haven’t got lucky when things don’t work out they move on quickly and focus on the next positive. They drop the negative like a hot potato and focus on what they can do today to get in a better state. They don’t seek sympathy from family and friends. The focus is on what is good in their life, and let go of the negativities. Don’t cheat on your future, with your past. It’s over. Commit to your future and it will be a strong, healthy one. If you don’t let go of your past, your future will suffer. Understand this is a very important fact: You are the one who suffers most when you hold on to resentments when you seek revenge. You are the one who wins when you do let go.
The key to success is: If you are not going to talk about something during the last hour of your life, then don,t make it a top priority during your lifetime
Richard Carlson
“Perfect Life” A Myth!
Life circumstances won’t be perfect but if you can get into the right space. You can get to the understanding that everything happens for a reason and be at peace with that. So be happy. Do whatever it takes to find your happiness. Not because everything is good but because you see the good in everything, not because every circumstance is a miracle but because you see the miracle in life itself.
There is only two ways to live a life; one is as though nothing is a miracle and other is as though everything is a miracle
Albert Einstein
Ask yourself, in which phase you are living in? Leave the darkness of your past behind so you can focus on letting in the light of your future.
Forgiveness; The Initiative of Let It Go.
Forgiveness is giving up the hope that the past could be any different. It means accepting what had happened to you. Well, it is accepting, that it has happened to you. Not accepting that it happened OK for it to happen. Forgiveness is giving up the hope of not holding on, hoping to wish that it could have been any other way than it actually was. By doing this you will see that it will take you to the next level of being a better person. Because now you are not holding any grudges or any situations to be halted on. It’s letting go so that the past does not hold you as a prisoner, does not hold you as a hostage.
That’s a story of two monks on pilgrimage, they came across a village, a young 17-year-old girl with a long kimono trying to cross a very muddy road but she is not daring to step into the mud. So, one monk picks her up, carries her across the road through the mud, puts her down.
So the monk walks on in silence for another 4-5 hours, just practicing noble silence. When they reached their destination, one monk says to the monk who ha picked the girl: ” Oh you know you should not have done that because we monks are not supposed to even touch women. So you really should not have picked up that girl. You are not supposed to do that.” And the other monk says: “Oh, are you still carrying that girl? I put her down hours ago.” So the other monk was still carrying the girl, the event, in his head and for four hours he was walking with this burden and that shows the reluctance of the human mind to let go of the past.
The truth is, unless you let go,unless you forgive yourself, unless you forgive the situation, unless you realize that the situation is over, you cannot move forward.
Steve Maraboli
Be Responsible For Your Own Life.
Those who take responsibility for their life and are wanting to move on and put the past behind them are much more likely to gain freedom, success, and happiness. Now, this does not mean there are not horrible people in the world that have done wrong by others. It’s not condoning other’s behavior, It is taking back the power they have from you. When you are the one suffering long after they are gone.
The Game Of Blaming!
It’s easy to blame those who have wronged us for just about everything that is wrong with our life. Most people are so caught up in blaming that they continue to blame and sabotage their own life long after the person is gone from their life. They hold on to the blame because it’s easier than moving on.
Who wins if you keep blaming them? But you win if you keep moving on. Take back your power. Blame them for what they have done but don’t blame them for what you have not done, bless them for making you stronger than before, for showing you exactly what you don’t want. You can blame the world for bringing them into your life. but then get grateful for all the lessons it taught you. All the strength it gave to you. Know in your heart if they knew better, they would do better.
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